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February 2016

Diagnosis – NPD, BPD, Anti-Social?

By |February 28th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|

I’ve written this document to understand Vendetta history and how that can translate into a comprehensive diagnosis. I’ve read books and interview lots of her friends, to figure it out. I put the three closest

Conclusion – It’s Never Over, But It Feels Like It’s Over

By |February 27th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|

Vendetta’s family was very accurate with their diagnosis, but so was I. When I asked a professional psychologist about their opinion, they said Vendetta’s behavior fell into the bucket that includes anti-social behavior, NPD, and

Selling the House -We’re Almost Done

By |February 26th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|Tags: , |

We went to court and finally got an agreement to see the house, but the judge warned her to not make this process difficult. The incentive for Vendetta was obvious: stay in the house as

Lauren’s Health – Skipping Doctor Visits

By |February 25th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|

From Lauren’s inception, I thought Vendetta that making tremendous mistakes. She drank a lot when she was pregnant and ate fast food when pregnant. After Lauren’s birth, she continued to breast feed when Lauren was

Photography Business Failing

By |February 24th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|Tags: |

Vendetta doesn’t realize this, but her business is slowly crumbling. Vendetta is not a good business person, that’s why her business was crumbling before, but most of the stuff I did for the business was,

New Boyfriend – Do You Warn Them?

By |February 24th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|Tags: |

I wasn’t sure why Vendetta wanted to get an official divorce before getting everything in the divorce worked out, but I found out later that month when she debuted her boyfriend on Instagram. I didn’t

Hiding Assets and More From The Deposition

By |February 23rd, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|Tags: |

I knew from the beginning that Vendetta was hiding assets. She told me she was hiding assets from her last marriage in case the government came after her for a foreclosure. She didn’t tell me

Dragging out the Divorce

By |February 22nd, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|Tags: |

Like in Vendetta’s previous marriage, she dragged out the divorce, because it’s so economically beneficial to do so. I even asked her why her last marriage took so long to conclude. She lied and said

Seeing Lauren – Custody Battle Gets Ugly

By |February 21st, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|Tags: , |

It’s sad what happened to Vendetta, but the sexual abused didn’t create all the problems, it was Charles and Taylor enabling Vendetta instead of getting her help that caused the problems. Not even threat of

Vendetta’s Perfect Victim

By |February 20th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|Tags: |

“She is demanding and flamboyant and may intimidate others. The Queen feels entitled to exploit others and can be vindictive and greedy.” Vendetta looks for guys who will put up with a long distance relationshipPsychological

Where Did It Go Wrong For Vendetta?

By |February 19th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|

“Therapists find that borderline patients have had one or more of the following experiences: 1. Inadequate emotional support following parental abandonment through death or divorce; 2. Parental abuse, emotional neglect, or chronic denigration; 3. Being

What Happened in 2010?

By |February 18th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|Tags: |

Psychological Analysis: Sexual promiscuity or acting out during periods of emotional upheaval is not uncommon for trauma survivors.  Also trauma survivors with BPD may use sex as a manipulation or hook in to creating a

What About Her Parents?

By |February 17th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|Tags: |

A mother and father hold up arms over their child to form a roof of security, protection, and safety. "Seventy-five percent of abused children in one study (Money 1992) showed self-destructive tendencies such

Marriage Fraud Comes Unraveled

By |February 16th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|Tags: , |

It took me a while to understand the extent of Vendetta’s manipulation, but I now know that the marriage was a fake. Vendetta used me to get pregnant. That’s 100% the truth. Now, two marriages

Vendetta’s Fabrication & Manipulation Revealed

By |February 15th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|

That book I mentioned had a page that finally connected all the dots for me. It was the plan Vendetta used to sabotage my reputation and destroy me in the eyes of her friends. Sometimes

Mother’s Retirement Money

By |February 14th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|Tags: , |

If there is anything that will get me mad, it's taking advantage of my friends and family. I protected my family the same why I protect my mom. Vendetta's attorney keeps stating that my Mom's

Charles’ Contradiction – Lies From a Pastor

By |February 13th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|Tags: , |

When I left the court house, I told Vendetta that I’m going to stop by the house to see Lauren after I traveled 5 hours for the trial. I owned the house 100% and I

Courtroom Drama – Trial Anger

By |February 12th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|Tags: , |

Our trial went on as expected and it wasn't that difficult since neither one of us were criminals in the mind of the judge. I knew the truth, but Vendetta might have been scared. What

Low Self-Esteem – Real Reason Behind Borderline Personality Disorder

By |February 11th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|Tags: |

Another story fits Vendetta’s personality and disorder. One of low self-esteem. Vendetta had the belief that no one at the church liked her. She confided to some people who told her just to have the

Wedding Sabotage – Stories Unfold

By |February 10th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|

Truth be told, I never expected Vendetta to end our marriage. I just figured she would wake up and realize what she was doingPsychological Analysis: Naïve and wishful.  You too were in denial explains why

Instagram Breakup – Pretty Lame Way to End a Marriage

By |February 8th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|Tags: , , |

This was when I knew things were bad. Vendetta, in the most cowardly way possible, ended a marriage via an Instagram Post. Really? See below. She purposely posted a picture of her hand to prove

Samantha Tells the Truth – Borderline Personality Disorder

By |February 6th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|Tags: , |

While on the phone with Samantha, she lets slip that Taylor had researched what was wrong with Vendetta years ago. Taylor said it was Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). I blew it off at first, because

Marital Separation – Call in South Carolina’s DSS

By |February 5th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|Tags: , |

For some parts of the separation, I thought Vendetta wanted to be together, but for other parts, she was obviously mad. I don't know what she was thinking and I only knew I was thinking

Worries About Lauren

By |February 4th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|

This is what happens to children who grow up in this environment: “Children borderline mothers begin their lives with an insecure attachment to an emotionally unstable mother. Thus, these children risk becoming impulsive, rage-filled, oppositional,

Borderline Personality Disorder & Mimicking

By |February 4th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|Tags: , |

This is how the book describes Vendetta: “Borderline personality disorder (BPD) is the single most common personality disorder affecting approximately six million Americans. Individuals with BPD are volatile, impulsive, self-destructive, and fearful of abandonment. Clinically,

2nd Call to OBGYN

By |February 4th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|

At this time and based on the advice of Vendetta’s friend, I called Vendetta’s OBGYN for the second time. I called and stated with no filter (this time) that Vendetta stabbed me in the face

Witch Hunt Starts

By |February 4th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|

I start to get calls from mutual friends who tell me that Vendetta is telling stories. They said that Vendetta had this hokey pokey way of talking that sounded like she knew I was going

Call to Charles

By |February 4th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|

At this point, I thought Vendetta would do what she did to her ex-husband and simply come to her senses. Based on the instructions of her good friend who called me up to tell me

Vendetta Continues to Lie

By |February 4th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|

The next day, I felt better that maybe a night in jail would help Vendetta to wake up and be sane again. Maybe she would seek help and fix herself. That didn't come true. One

Normal Vendetta?

By |February 4th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|

This was the oddest thing that I’ll leave to the psychologist to explain, but whenever Vendetta left Charleston, she was mostly normal. That’s why I could spend three weeks traveling with her and not have

Vendetta’s Drunk Breast Feeding

By |February 4th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|

This was just another area the Vendetta tried to fool everyone in to thinking that she was right. After several horrible remarks about not wanting to come to Jacksonville for a soccer game that I

Rage #7: Criminal Domestic Violence / Stabbing

By |February 3rd, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|

This was the deal breaker in the marriage. This is why it ended, but not for the reason that was most apparent. Vendetta tracked down my location, because she hacked my phone. She lied about

January 2016

Vendetta’s Nasty Text Messages

By |January 31st, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|Tags: , , , |

When Lauren was born, I started receiving truly nasty text messages. They just were crazy in tone and just cut down to my soul is turns of nastiness. The messages read like this: "I'm exhausted

Begging for Money

By |January 31st, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|Tags: , |

Many times through the marriage, Vendetta would not help pay family expenses, which was a big problem.  She would go on expensive trips abroad and expensive photography classes, but wouldn't help pay for family expenses.

Extortion, Drinking, and More

By |January 31st, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|Tags: , , |

The whole weekend was weird in so many ways. After talking to Eliot, I knew with more clarity that the whole marriage was a fraud, but I’d rather fix it for Lauren’s sake than give

Rage #6: Vendetta Crashes the Van

By |January 31st, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|Tags: , |

I ran into the shower before Vendetta left for a wedding because I didn’t want to shower when I had Lauren with me. When I got out, I needed to grab something from the car,

First Evidence of NPD | Only Nice Toward Me When I’m Working For Her

By |January 31st, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|Tags: , |

On several occasions after Vendetta got pregnant, she would say that our relationship was only about business. This was definitely her view, but it was not mine. The only time Vendetta was nice to me

Marriage Counselor #2

By |January 31st, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|

After Vendetta stopped going to Todd, the counselor, I quickly booked a second "marriage" counselor to help us get things back together. I promised Vendetta that it would be ok and that she could go

I Finally Talk to Eliot

By |January 31st, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|

For the longest time, I was trying to figure out what part of Vendetta’s behavior was a result of the stress of marriage versus it being her personality. My mother and I agreed that the

It Wasn’t the Pregnancy

By |January 31st, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|

I read a good number of books and blogs about pregnancy to see if somehow Vendetta’s situation was an extreme version, and she didn’t actually want to divorce me. I was so hopeful that Lauren

Tiffany Comes to Visit

By |January 31st, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|

Psychological Analysis: And maybe even you had vilified to the point where Tiffany was weary and untrusting of you just as Vendetta manipulated Tiffany was Vendetta’s best friend and maid of honor at her wedding.

Surprise Visit

By |January 30th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|

Vendetta didn’t want surprise visits during the fraud because they would see how nice I was. Vendetta’s big excuse for not divorcing me sooner was that somehow behind closed doors, I was evil. This contrasted

House Cleaning

By |January 30th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|

Rasputin had setup a house cleaning that we were all supposed to participate in, but I was the only one who went with the cleaners. I worked for eight hours, but when Vendetta finally left

Lauren’s Birth

By |January 30th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|

When Lauren was born, I was so excited. Vendetta was happy too, but she had to have a C-section and that was not our plan. Vendetta noticed that Lauren was not kicking for a while,

Vendetta Sets Up New Email

By |January 18th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|Tags: |

Vendetta is always on her phone and Facebook. It’s rude to most people who are around her, but at least I know she communicates with people in a very fast manner. When I reached out

Maternity Shoot Trap

By |January 18th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|Tags: , |

When you see photos of Vendetta, know they are truly manipulated, because when we did our maternity shoot, Vendetta’s behavior was witnessed by the photographer. Apparently, whenever I would turn my head or walk some

Finances and Scooter (Vendetta’s Dog)

By |January 18th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|

While I was struggling with money and Vendetta showed absolutely no empathy towards me or this issue, Scooter got sick. He was sick for months, but Vendetta ignored it and I didn’t have the money

I Finally Talked to An Attorney… About Real Estate

By |January 18th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|Tags: , |

I was already putting the pieces of the fraud together when I was in the middle of selling my company and reinvesting the money into real estate. I needed any possible way of making an

The Snooping Starts

By |January 18th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|Tags: |

Vendetta was searching for evidence against me to file for divorce. There was none, because I was searching just as hard for ways to save the marriage and help Vendetta to seek counseling. On your

Vendetta Hires an Attorney

By |January 18th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|Tags: , |

According to court documents, Rasputin, Vendetta’s accountant, secured a divorce attorney on Vendetta’s behalf. This was suspiciously when Vendetta’s attitude toward the marriage completely changed. Since a month into her pregnancy, she was asking for

Todd the Counselor

By |January 18th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|Tags: |

Diego: Around December of 2013, the relationship was going horrible and divorce was a growing fear. Vendetta was asking for a divorce every weekend I was in town. She would yell and scream all the

Vendetta Turns Taylor

By |January 18th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|

During Vendetta’s second (of the yearlong marriages) and final visit to Atlanta to see me, she went through my emails, Facebook, etc. messages looking for evidence of whatever was in her head. She came across

Christmas Party and Visit in Atlanta

By |January 18th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|Tags: , , |

Vendetta came to visit me in Atlanta. It was only the second time she had came, so I wanted her to have a great time. She came in exclusively for the holiday party and we went straight

Conversation with Vendetta’s Family

By |January 18th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|Tags: , , , |

The marriage was quickly dissolving and I was talking to everyone. I reached out to all of Vendetta’s close friends and family members to get answers. Tiffany and I spoke in length. She said that

Pathological Liar – Discovered

By |January 18th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|Tags: , |

I'm sure that Taylor is not bi-polar, but her behavior is erratic just for having to deal with VendettaPsychological Analysis: Or maybe she has always been erratic and the apple did not fall far from

Taylor’s Attacks Start – Roommate is Out

By |January 18th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|Tags: , , |

Vendetta always warned me that Taylor was a bit crazy. Even on our first date, Vendetta warned me that Taylor was bi-polar and that she would eventually attack. This happened to Erin, who one day

Thanksgiving Whispers and Lies Revealed

By |January 18th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|Tags: , , |

By Thanksgiving, things were bad. Charles wanted Vendetta and I to hang out together, but Vendetta insisted that we not, so she went with her parents directly through Atlanta where I was staying and on

Rage #5: OBGYN

By |January 18th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|

Vendetta’s OBGYN was well respected in Charleston. I personally liked her a ton and she was always very respectable. On the way to see Vendetta’s doctor, Vendetta began to rage after she got lost going

Rage #4: Knock at the Door

By |January 18th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|Tags: |

I started asking the counselor how to act to protect myself from Vendetta's negative attitude and emotional abuse. She said I couldn't take blame for absolutely everything that Vendetta did, because it would put me

How She Destroys Reputations

By |January 18th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|Tags: |

  “Children of borderline [mothers] know that their mother can make people vanish. They have seen her cut people to shreds with words, shatter the reputations of those who betray her, and stab them in

Turning Point – Vendetta’s Manipulation is Uncovered

By |January 18th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|Tags: , , |

On one occasion, Vendetta yelled at me when I requested a ride from the auto dealership back to the house. The walk was about two miles, which I gladly took in order to avoid Vendetta.

First Marriage Counselor – I Need Answers

By |January 18th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|

Marital Counseling Vendetta and my relationship was going so badly, that I had no option, but to seek therapy for us. During an argument, Vendetta told me that we needed counseling. I’m sure

Citadel Breakdown – Text Attack

By |January 18th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|Tags: , |

Diego Weinstein and I were heading to the Citadel Homecoming, so I invited Vendetta. She said ok and we were all supposed to go to the game together. Diego and I were waiting for Vendetta

Vendetta’s Birthday – Plot Foiled

By |January 18th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|Tags: , |

Birthday cupcake It was around the same time as the finance debacle, but Vendetta and I got ready to go to her birthday downtown. A lot of people were supposed to meet up

Vendetta’s Finances

By |January 18th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|Tags: |

During the marriage I expected to be in charge of the finances, since I was very good at it and Vendetta credit was ruined. Before the marriage, Vendetta Psychological Analysis: Again did you discuss this

Bowling Night Fiasco

By |January 18th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|Tags: |

Like what was happening through most of the marriage, Vendetta got mad, but the blowing alley night was especially bizarre. We were all having a great time at the bowling alley. All of a sudden,

Leave for Atlanta to Start Work

By |January 18th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|Tags: |

Just weeks after Vendetta found out she was pregnant, her whole attitude changed for the worse. She was mean every day and especially the last day before I was to finally to start my dream

House Purchase

By |January 18th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|Tags: |

I was on a roll all summer. Got married, pregnant, and now I was about to buy a house. This was great and I was very excited about the bargain I negotiated and location I

Vendetta Gets Pregnant

By |January 18th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|Tags: |

After the honeymoon, Vendetta and I finally lived together and I was extremely happy to be living together and enjoying the rest of the summer. We found out shortly after the honeymoon that Vendetta was

Rage #3: Honeymoon in Greece

By |January 18th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|Tags: , |

Although the honeymoon was fantastic, Vendetta got really upset one day when we were driving an RTV around a Greece island. She had to get off the vehicle so that I could drive it up

The Wedding

By |January 18th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|Tags: , |

In the run up to the wedding, Vendetta and I started to get a little stressed. Vendetta was a little meaner to me, and I was a little more erratic, but we mostly kept it

Josh Didn’t Come to the Wedding

By |January 18th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|

Vendetta already told me that Josh was crazy and a terrible brother. She told me she wanted lots of kids, because she didn’t want her kids to have only one choice of a sibling like

Graduation Lunch Yelling

By |January 18th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|Tags: , |

Just after my graduation, we all went to Atlantic Station and ordered lunch at a fun place. We had a waiter that had just started that day and wasn't the best. I don't know which

South East Asia

By |January 18th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|Tags: , |

We spent the beginning of the year in South East Asia where we had a great time. We visited Cambodia, Vietnam, and Bangkok. It was fantastic and everything went off without a hitch. When we

Rage #2: RIO, Brazil

By |January 18th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|Tags: , |

When I went to Brazil for study abroad, I had Vendetta come with me. She had to understand that this was a school trip and that I would not be available to hang out all

Rage #1: Vendetta’s First Rage

By |January 18th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|Tags: , |

After I proposed to Vendetta, we were both very excited and our friends were super excited too. A couple of weeks later, we went up to Tennessee to visit Vendetta’s aunt Samantha. It was a

Things Get Stranger – Message from Vendetta’s Grandmother

By |January 18th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|Tags: , |

Psychological Analysis: Could it be possible that you wanted so much to see her “sane” that you ignored many key moments of windows in to her fragile instability?  Also you are citing a lot quotes about

First visit with Charles and Taylor

By |January 18th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|Tags: , |

In this entire paragraph there are flags.  It is important in a relationship to realize that things go in two ways not just one.  First of all, people with Borderline personality Disorders are often a

When Vendetta Met Diego

By |January 17th, 2016|Categories: The Charleston Marriage Fraud|Tags: |

When Vendetta and I met, she was single and I had just come out of a three year relationship with a girl I had planned to marry. That girl also had a daughter, which really