This was the oddest thing that I’ll leave to the psychologist to explain, but whenever Vendetta left Charleston, she was mostly normal. That’s why I could spend three weeks traveling with her and not have warning flags about a future relationship. Sure, she lost her mind twice, but that was better than the last girl I dated, so I considered myself lucky.[ref]Psychological Analysis: Bc eyes were off and she was removed from her environment. Outside of home she is more vulnerable and needs to rely on you at home she is stronger but her reputation is more vulnerable and she needs you to be the villain.[/ref]
To illustrate how crazy this was, Vendetta and I went on a day trip to a theme park for our one year anniversary. It was a rough trip for the first half of the day, but then she started to loosen up… I was apprehensive as well,… and we had a great time. On the way home to Charleston, we were like our old selves. It was fantastic. My guard was down and I was excited to be with the person I married. All of a sudden, we came within 45 mins of home and Vendetta’s attitude completely changed. It was crazy! She got silent. Then she started an argument. I had no idea why it happened, but that’s just how that day ended. I found out that night that Vendetta messaged her mom who was curious how the day went. She said that we fought again… nothing about her starting a fight,.. just that we fought. I told Vendetta that she got this way from time to time and that it’s usually when she is stressed or not sleeping enough. That’s before I knew for sure that Vendetta had borderline personality disorder (BPD).
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