Truth be told, I never expected Vendetta to end our marriage. I just figured she would wake up and realize what she was doing[ref]Psychological Analysis: Naïve and wishful. You too were in denial explains why you enabled her so often. Author Comment: All true. I think I denied myself this reality so that I could never have a regret that I didn’t trying everything possible to save my marriage. I didn’t want to live with a regret. I don’t regret getting married. I don’t regret what happened. I’m just happy to be alive and to have made it through all that. I’m glad God gave me a quick course correction in life. I just don’t get walked over anymore. I don’t let small things bother me like before. I’m a better mentor. I’m more trustworthy…. because in each case I can reference the crazy story that happened.[/ref]. When I started talking to people, I learned that Vendetta’s sickness was way worse than I ever expected. Not only did Vendetta use people to get ahead, but she was incredible vindictive and her mother knew it from the beginning.
One story involved Vendetta leaving her father’s church to join River Church to get away from her mother who was trying to stop Vendetta from doing something awful to Eliot, her ex-husband. Apparently, Vendetta found out that Eliot was getting married again and she was not happy, so she wanted to sabotage the wedding by putting pictures of her and Eliot on the cars of all the guests in the parking lot. This was probably just the beginning of Vendetta’s plan to ultimately ruin Eliot’s wedding. Taylor called up the River Church pastor and asked if he would intervene and stop Vendetta, who was out of control. I’m not sure if he did anything, but the damage was done. Vendetta was labeled in a way that fit her intentions.
Although Vendetta and Eliot were not together for a long time and she already did him wrong by choosing not to pay the mortgage, when she was contractually supposed too, Vendetta continue to torment Eliot. Before, I was afraid of physical violence from Vendetta, but at this point, I knew she wouldn’t leaving me or my future family in peace.
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